Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
You are going to leave me.
You are going to hurt me.
You are going to break your promises.
That is okay. But,
let’s not pretend like this is something
like you are someone different.
Please don’t feed me lines
if they’re hanging off the end of a fishing rod.
The hook scratches my throat when
you pull it back out,
causing more damage to my insides
than the secondhand smoke
from your cigarettes.
I will not hate you.
I will wish you well.
I will love you always and forever.
And so we go our separate ways,
the boy and girl that could’ve been,
but something always came up.